Authentic Renewal, Enlightenment, and Strength through the Waters of Baptism (Topic 26)

Single Mothers of Mary                              Topic 26

Goal: To learn about the nature of authentic renewal and enlightenment

Topics that will be covered in this post:

  • Inspirational Women: Mary and Edith Stein (St. Teresia Benedicta of the Cross, 1891-1942)
  • First Luminous Mystery: The Baptism of Jesus by John the Baptist
  • Guidance on how to assess when temptation becomes sinful, on the dignity of woman, and conversing with God.
  • Questions on how women are devalued, on how to be a good mom despite being a single mom, and on how to discern authentic enlightenment.

 

†    Born in Breslau to a Jewish family, the youngest of eleven children.

†    Quiet and thoughtful, at a young age she decided she wanted to become an atheist in 1904.

†    When she went to the University of Göttingen, she studied philosophy, earning her doctorate in 1916. She concentrated her studies on theories of women, empathy, human sexuality, relationships, and phenomenology (the philosophy of perception). She was able to translate works from Greek, Latin, English, and French.

†    She arose as one of Europe’s brightest philosophers and was sought after by many universities to lecture on philosophy but could not obtain a professorship since she was a woman.

†    As a traveling lecturer and professor of philosophy, she endeavored to expand her studies in phenomenology using Thomistic thought (as begun by St. Thomas Aquinas). This would be her first contemplation with Christian thought.

†    As time went by, she found a copy of an autobiography of St. Teresa of Avila (one of the doctors of the Church) and was deeply called to conversion, so much so that she wanted to become a vowed discalced Carmelite nun like St. Teresa. She was baptized in 1922. However, since her mother was so shocked with her conversion, Edith decided to wait on studying to be a Carmelite.

†    In 1932, she left the university to work as a teacher in a Dominican school. She also lectured at the Educational Institute in Munich but had to resign because the Nazi tensions were rising.

†    In 1934, she finally became a nun with the name Teresa Benedicta of the Cross.

†    In 1938, she had to be smuggled to the Netherlands to hide from the Nazis, but in 1940 they overtook that country as well.

†    In 1942, she was arrested for being a non-Aryan Catholic and for being of Jewish descent–that same year she died in a gas chamber in Auschwitz.

†     John Paul II canonized her as a martyr and mystic, having read and admired many of her works to understand women, their dignity and vocation–she also successfully fused scholasticism and phenomenology.

Prayer: First Luminous Mystery (The Baptism of Jesus)

  • Start with short introductory prayer of praise and thanksgiving, intercession and petitions.
  • Read Mark 1: 1-15 and reflect.
  • The Creed and a decade of the Rosary with St. Louis, praying for the grace to fulfill our Baptismal promises with Jesus, in His Baptism.
  • Reflect silently on the Mystery of His Baptism.
  • Discuss any inspirations or questions about the Mystery.
  • Discuss the rebirth of the spiritual pulse that we have been given, which is further signified by Jesus’ descending into and ascending out of the water.

Readings:

  • St. Francis De Sales, Part IV, Chapter 6 (how temptation/attraction can become sinful)
  • CCC 535-537 (baptism of Jesus), 836-838 (who belongs to the Catholic Church),
  • Edith Stein excerpts
  • St. Francis De Sales, Part III, Chapter 26 (conversation with God)

Faith Witness:

  • What kinds of things devalue women for who they are?
  • What kinds of things nourish the nature of woman?
  • What are some things we can do to keep our lives balanced even though we have the added challenge of being single mothers?
  • How does baptism help us to become fully human?
  • What must we renounce and what must we embrace to be fulfilled?
  • Read CCC 25 about the goal of authentic teachings. What teachings can we always count on?
  • Pray with Jesus in His Baptism this week with the prayer of Beatitudes.

Topic # 10: Saying Goodbye…but only for a moment…

Fifth Luminous Mystery

The Last Supper and the Institution of the Eucharist

 Literature and Reflection

  • Start with short introductory prayer and question, “What are you most in need of at this moment?”
  • Read Matthew 26: 17-30 and John 13: 1-30 and reflect
  • The Creed and a decade of the Rosary
  • Three points by Ignatius
    • Jesus ate the Paschal Lamb with His twelve Apostles to whom He foretold His death
    • He washed the feet of His disciples, even those of Judas. He began with St. Peter who, considering the majesty of the Lord and his own lowly estate, would not permit it. Peter did not understand that Jesus was giving him an example of humility.
    • He instituted the most Holy Sacrifice of the Eucharist as the greatest proof of His love, saying, “Take and eat.” When the supper was finished, Judas went forth to sell Christ our Lord.

Discussion

  • How do you think Mary felt with all that Jesus was saying on His last night? What did you think she had to have to be able to keep going?
  • Try reading a NT passage that you have had trouble with before and try to ascertain the body language, the unspoken words, that occurred during the scene, knowing that Jesus is full of love. How does that change your perception of the passage?
  • Have you ever thought of prayer as a meal?
  • What about The Divine Meal as a prayer?
  • At one point in the Gospel, Martha was busy and Mary just sat and enjoyed Jesus’ Presence. What are some things we can do to focus on His Presence in the Eucharist?
  • How can we show others that we enjoy God’s presence and their presence?
  • Practical concerns of a single mother: food, clothing, friends, finances.
  • Make a priority list.

Readings

One on One with my daughter on single parents “Vlog” by Single Southern Mommy

Casual casualties by Sarah Jane Prosetry (single mom)

Lust Unchaste by Linnea (single mom)

1.199 – The Short Truth by Kiss the Muse (single mom)

Splish splash by Bumpy Road to Bubba (single mom)

Life sends odd people in your direction by 4livinglife (single mom)

7 Quick Takes, Business Edition by 11onmyown (single mom)

CCC 1382 through 1405

The Gospel of Life 22-3 (the sense of God lost)

*This is built on excerpts from a curriculum developed for Single Mothers of Mary. I have added more spiritual readings and the points by St. Ignatius if you need more to ponder over the week. 

Pray for single moms, their children, and the fathers of their children today!
You are also in our prayers…

Topic # 9: Those WOW! and _________ moments

Fourth Luminous Mystery
The Transfiguration
Literature and Prayer
  • Start with short introductory prayer and question, “What are you most in need of at this moment?”
  • Read Matthew 17: 1-9 and reflect
  • The Creed and a decade of the Rosary and reflect
  • Three points by Ignatius
    • Christ our Lord took with Him His beloved disciples Peter, James, and John
    • He spoke with Moses and Elijah
    • While St. Peter was saying they should build three tents (tabernacles), a voice came from heaven. When the disciples heard the voice, they fell on their faces in great fear, BUT Jesus came to them and touched them and said, “Arise and do not be afraid.”

Discussion

  • Discuss any inspirations or questions about the Mystery.
  • Tell me about a WOW! moment or a moment when you felt fearfully awed, speechless.
  • Discuss times if/when you have felt changed, lit up, and how you share that light with others, including your children.
  • Have you ever thought about the fact that the Holy Spirit is there in those moments?
  • Jesus has been described as someone who is both ardent and gentle with His love. What does this mean and how can we imitate it?
  • When is it hard to respond to His light, love, courage?
  • Why would Jesus choose to suppress His light and power for most of his earthly sojourn?
  • What qualities that women possess does Jesus admire (see Mulieris readings below)?
  • How does being ardent and gentle to ourselves help us be ardent and gentle to others?
  • Any guesses as to why a picture of Thor is here? What does it have to do with transfiguration?

Readings

Women’s Health: Birth Control May Boost Risk of Carrying Staph Bacteria by Lady Romp (single woman)

From The Desk of W.O.W. {10/5/2012} by Bella Grace (single mom on marching on)

Bondage by Linnea (single mom)

Hello sheep by Bumpy Road to Bubba (single mom)

MemoryKeeper by Mostly Happy (single mom)

Examples of Liberty of Spirit by Saintly Sages

Man boy by Sarah Jane Prosetry (single mom)

Not Budging When It Comes To My Children by Surviving Life with Grace (single mom)

Warm my heart by The Story of 2 (single mom)

September 30, 2012 and Sometimes… by the Unexpected Pregnancy (single mom)

St. Francis De Sales, Part II, Chap. 13 (holy thoughts)

CCC 2566-7 (the call)

Mulieres Dignitatem 13 (women in the Gospel) and 15 (woman’s ability to respond to Him)

CCC 1763-70 (the passions)

St. Francis De Sales, Part III, Chap. 9 (gentleness to self)

On Thinking About God

  • In the context of  faith, where do you see yourself now (falling away from God, falling into His arms, considering if God is the answer or even real, on the ground in utter confusion, fearing God, being angry with God, facing God in love, etc.)?
  • When was the first time you remember considering the Person of Jesus?
  • When did you begin to genuinely seek Jesus through heartfelt prayer yourself?
  • Was there a time when your faith was challenged?
  • Was there ever a time when you compromised your faith or felt confused about it so as not to speak up about it?
  • Was there a time when you lost faith?
  • Was there a time when you became completely awed by the Person of Jesus?

*These are excerpts from a curriculum developed for Single Mothers of Mary. I have added more spiritual readings and the points by St. Ignatius if you need more to ponder over the week. The St. Francis de Sales link (Introduction to the Devout Life) can be found under “Additional Resources”

Pray for single moms, their children, and the fathers of their children today!
You are also in our prayers…

Topic # 8: Warm Rays of Love Begin to Break Through

Third Luminous Mystery

The Proclamation of the Kingdom

What was from the beginning,

what we have heard,

what we have seen with our eyes,

what we looked upon

and touched with our hands

concerns the Word of life–

for the life was made visible;

we have seen it and testify to it

and proclaim to you the eternal life

that was with the Father and was made visible to us–

what we have seen and heard

we proclaim now to you,

so that you may have fellowship with us;

for our fellowship is with the Father

and with His Son, Jesus Christ.

We are writing this so that our joy may be complete…

God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all…

for God is love.

–1 John 1: 1-5 and 4:8

 Scripture Literature and Prayer

  • Start with short introductory prayer and question, “What are you most in need of at this moment?”
  • Read Matthew 5 and reflect
  • The Creed and a decade of the Rosary and reflect
  • Three points by Ignatius
    • He speaks apart to His beloved disciples about the beatitudes
    • He exhorts them to use their talents well
    • He shows that He is not a transgressor of the law but a fulfiller. He explains the precept not to kill, not to commit adultery, not to swear falsely, and to love our enemies.

 Discussion

  • Discuss any inspirations or questions about the Mystery.
  • Discuss how spiritual poverty increases integrity in becoming a true disciple and how children are good examples of this type of fidelity to Christ.
  • What are some of your talents and blessings as a human being, a woman, and an individual?
  • How have these parts of you been abused or misused?
  • How can we turn this around to help our children be valued as persons, young men/women, and individuals so as not to make them feel like burdens?
  • Recognizing our own dignity helps us to show others their dignity. Do we believe that God works to give us back our dignity and that this comes with a profound responsibility (we need his help to keep it)?
  • What are some things we can do to refocus or moderate our anger (suppression vs. repression) so that our children do not receive the affects of our own hurts?
  • Discuss anything that is on your mind.

Readings

“You Will Be Alright” From The Desk of W.O.W. {9/28/2012} (single mom)

Just because I love you by Bumpy Road to Bubba (single mom)

1.198 – Dear Single Mothers by Kiss the Muse (single mom)

Now I Know by Linnea (single mom)

Quietly Brave… by Mostly Happy (single mom)

Storms: a string of haiku on self by Sarah Jane Prosetry (single mom)

On Hilarious Three-Year-Old Quotes by Savanah Pro Se (single mom)

The only thing that’s in… by Single Southern Mommy (single mom)

Babies and Puppies by Surviving Life With Grace

You gotta roll with it. by the Life and times of a single mum

Scary Animals at the Zoo by the Story of 2 (single mom)

St. Francis De Sales Part II, Chap. 8 (meditation and resolution), see Introduction to the Devout Life link in “Additional Resources” on the side

CCC 2565 (prayer as communion)

Mulieres Dignitatem 12 (Jesus towards women)

Luke 8:40-56 (daughter)

St. Francis De Sales Part III, Chap. 8 (meekness and remedies for anger)

On Thinking About God

  • In the context of  faith, where do you see yourself now (falling away from God, falling into His arms, considering if God is the answer or even real, on the ground in utter confusion, fearing God, being angry with God, facing God in love, etc.)?
  • When was the first time you remember considering the Person of Jesus?
  • When did you begin to genuinely seek Jesus through heartfelt prayer yourself?
  • Was there a time when your faith was challenged?
  • Was there ever a time when you compromised your faith or felt confused about it so as not to speak up about it?
  • Was there a time when you lost faith?
  • Was there a time when you became completely awed by the Person of Jesus?

*These are excerpts from a curriculum developed for Single Mothers of Mary. I have added more spiritual readings and the points by St. Ignatius if you need more to ponder over the week. The St. Francis de Sales link (Introduction to the Devout Life) can be found under “Additional Resources”

Pray for single moms, their children, and the fathers of their children today!
You are also in our prayers…

Topic # 7: Empty Heart

Second Luminous Mystery

The Wedding at Cana

you have kept the good wine until now…

–John 2:10

 Scripture Literature and Prayer

  • Start with short introductory prayer and question, “What are you most in need of at this moment?”
  • Read John 2: 1-16 and reflect.
  • The Creed and a decade of the Rosary, think about the mystery as you pray
  • Three points by Ignatius
    • Christ our Lord and His disciples were invited to the marriage feast
    • His Mother calls her Son’s attention to the lack of wine
    • He changes water into wine

Discussion (all are welcome!)

  • Discuss any inspirations or questions about the Mystery.
  • Discuss how Mary approaches Jesus when she sees something is amiss and why Mary might be a good person to go to when you need something.
  • When do you feel most empty?
  • What can being emptied lead us to do that might not be so good and what can Jesus, conversely, fill us with and help us do?
  • Sometimes change is hard, but it can be good. Discuss a time when you felt renewed or changed for the better.
  • Why are healthy boundaries important in safeguarding our own hearts?
  • How can we maintain our dignity as women and mothers?
  • What are some of the things you feel when you see the picture above?

Readings

From the desk of W.O.W by Bella Grace (single mom on prayer)

She danced on my toes by Bumpy Road to Bubba (single mom on dancing with her daughter)

Dizzy by Linnea (single mom on being transformed by love)

Everybody wants love… by Mostly Happy (single mom)

My Boy is Back in Traditional School by Surviving Life with Grace (single mom who homeschooled for a year)

Another damn wish by the Story of 2

A letter to my 20 year old self by The Life and Times of a Single Mum

Read St. Francis De Sales Part II Chapter 7 (spiritual bouquet)

CCC 2562-4 (prayer as covenant)

Mulieres Dignitatem 24 (genuine men)

Matthew 5: 27-8 (an appeal to the heart)

St. Francis De Sales Part III, Chapter 7 (preserving your reputation)

On Thinking About God

  • In the context of  faith, where do you see yourself now (falling away from God, falling into His arms, considering if God is the answer or even real, on the ground in utter confusion, fearing God, being angry with God, facing God in love, etc.)?
  • When was the first time you remember considering the Person of Jesus?
  • When did you begin to genuinely seek Jesus through heartfelt prayer yourself?
  • Was there a time when your faith was challenged?
  • Was there ever a time when you compromised your faith or felt confused about it so as not to speak up about it?
  • Was there a time when you lost faith?
  • Was there a time when you became completely awed by the Person of Jesus?

*These are excerpts from a curriculum developed for Single Mothers of Mary. I have added more spiritual readings and the points by St. Ignatius if you need more to ponder over the week. The St. Francis de Sales link (Introduction to the Devout Life) can be found under “Additional Resources”

Pray for single moms, their children, and the fathers of their children today!
You are also in our prayers…